Marie

Ok, last night after spending hours in the library making my power point presentation, (for a research paper in microbiology) i was going home when Julie ( a very sweet friend of mine) came to me and pretty much all excited, she told me she was thinking about her future lately and she pretty much is trying to figure it out… it made me think a lot and here for you dear readers… have you ever thought about your future?

I mean that’s why we work/go to class trynna get a degree right? but that’s not what i meant… i mean future like where would you be in ten years?

we all have different plans and goals but some how no matter how individual we are… our goals somehow ressemble… for example most girls want to be a mother, a typical guy would want to be financially secure and so forth…

No matter how ambition your goal is, remember EVERYHING IS POSSIBLE!!!! there would be obtacles, but those are only meant to make you stonger! learn from them and be wiser!!! no matter what don’t give up!! go for what you want and don’t let nobody tells you… you can’t do it!

for example I would love to see myself in providence/colorado/council bluffs (some small towns) ..practicing ob/gyn, having a family  and being financially secure! it might or might not happen… it doesn’t keep me from studying harder now…

So good luck for all of you in deciding your future, take some times and really think about it, and those of you that have no clue yet… don’t stress, it would come eventually! stay warm!!!

We just had two days off… waaaay sweeeeeeeet… i feel like it was well deserved; we needed to take a break after midterm and from all our classes…

it’s not easy to be in college, some of us have a job others a family to take care of plus the job and the school… and those who are freshman… it’s a lot of new stuff to take in, and sometime, one can be overwhelmed and depression settle in…

depression is a very serious disease, it makes one feel like there’s no tomorrow, and no matter what he/she does, she will not successed and always be a failure, i can not tell you the cause of depression because it varies from people to people, some people might be depressed because even though they study hard, they didn’t get the grade they wanted, and others might be depressed by tragic events such as breaking up with boyfriends/girlfriends, loosing a bestfriends or family members and so forth! but i also can say that some people get drepressed for no particular reason!!

Whenever depressed you should have love ones around, try to not be alone because that’s when you feel at your worse, talk about it, even though it might feel like there’s no future to whatever… try to stay as positive as possible and if you feel suicidal, contact a health professional!

stay warm, stay happy

Just try to pick up something, you use your fingers right? but in order for the thing to be picked up, every single finger comes together to work in harmony right? well that’s exactly how i view friendhip! here’s a little poem, my way of describing friendship:D

When life becomes hard, when you need a shoulder to cry on, when you are happy and want someone to cry joy with!when you make a big mistakes and you feel like the whole world will reject you, when family is too far from you; when you are alone, and need to talk!u should be able to rely on your friends! friendship is special; it’s not selfish, it doesn’t search for its own good, it’s patient, it’s forgiven, it’s eternal, and it’s real! friendship shouldn’t involve jealousy, bad influency, sadness, regrets! it’s should be pure, innocent and a positivity in one’s life

I know this is kinda cheesssy but at this moment in life when we are in college trying to build a future, we should be surrounder by positives people! so know who your real friends are

I promised i’m going to talk about living on campus! like i’ve mentioned before i live in the apartments, (i’m not saying my apt # i don’t want stalkers hehhee) so the apts are the buildings that look like apts… easy huh? anyways i have roomates, and they are awesome! we have two bedrooms in total and two beds per room, (the beds are funished by the school )a dining room which has a dining table+ chairs, a living room(that you get to decorate as you want) a kitchen(which comes with refrigerator and counters) and a bathroom with a bathtub, and everything an average bathroom got. 

Living on campus is fun because every week there are activities that the housing committee organized for us.  YOu get to meet new people make new friends and get the most of your college experience! also we have a clubhouse, where people hang out at, it also has a laudry room in it, where you can do your laundry!

 each building has an RA (resident assistant) who helps with everything.  Each building is very close to the school so that one can walk to class!!!

there are also other kind of housing such as the suite,and the residential hall!! each facility has an entertainment center!

but let go back to where i live, the apt! hehehe… anyways we just decorated our living room! at the beginning of the semester we didn’t have any furniture in the living room! we were going super cool but now we change our mind, we wanna be as every one else! hahaha, so now we get some furniture, but trust me they are sweet!!! very different, very unique just like us…. and we have a fish who is called the fish bait who killer?! sumthing like that….everyone is welcomed to our apt…. except stalkers… hehehee